Monday, September 24, 2007

5 cycles of human's life

Every Human being is circulating in his own orbit, like the earth is circulating around the sun. There are basically five types of human cycles in my opinion. These are

1. Basic Human Rights and Basic Human necessities (BHR) :-

The basic human rights and basic human necessities are provided either by the Government, or the man himself tries his best to achieve them. In developed Nations, It’s the duty of Government to facilitate the citizen in every way. These include his basic human rights, health care, education, housing, finance, insurance etc. While in third world country like Pakistan, these facilities are not provided by government and an individual has to strive himself to get them. That’s why 70 to 80 % of our population circulates in this circle of life. They can’t think beyond it.

2. Career development and Status (CDS) :-

This is circle of life, when man is free from all of his personal and social problems. Then he is able to think about his life, He thinks and works his best to make his life as comfortable as possible. The majority of people in today’s world fall in this category of life cycle.
The 20 to 30 % of Pakistan’s population comes out of first cycle of life, stays in this one. These individuals are either businessmen, or highly educated personals of the country who are conscious of their career development and to improve their life style. They are striving day and night for having the highest status and best career in life. It also includes the 5 to 7 % elite class of the nation who can be referred as dead assert of Nation. The people who fall in this life cycle are unfortunately unable to think beyond a certain limit, and most of them strive for the best to get the best status in society.

3. Self Discovery

This is the life cycle which bring’s man from the category of Virtual Human beings to Real Human beings, or from animals to Human beings. Unfortunately only 5 to 10 % people in whole world fall in this category. That means the 90 % of men and women in todays world are leading a life like an animal, they have limited thinking, limited approach to life and limited purpose of life.

The self discovery starts from the thinking when an individual thinks that WHY AM I HERE ? WHAT IS PURPOSE OF MY LIFE ? WHAT SHOULD I DO IN LIFE AND WHAT AM I DOING ? WHERE AM I LEADING AND WHERE SHOULD I LEAD ? Human beings are usually confused when they are in this life cycle. These confusions usually make an individual a complex man and he wastes his life in the answer of these questions. One is really lucky to get answers of these questions and find his true purpose of life, whatever it is.

4. Human welfare

When man get’s free from all of pressures and burdens in life, and finds the purpose of his life, then he start’s thinking for the welfare of other fellows instead of himself. There are many ways of human welfare, from financial welfare, professional welfare and spiritual welfare. Today’s world and especially our country badly needs these type of individuals to come forward and endeavor their best for the country in its dark ages.

5. Secret mission of life

If a man is really lucky then GOD chooses him to serve for humanity in anyway, These type of persons are the least in world’s history. They could be unknown or famous persons in society and they could be from the poorest to most rich people.

Sunday, May 13, 2007

Hidden potential of man


Assalam O Alikum

God has created man with dust and water, man is helpless in certain
matters, like its birth, death, rizq and certain other things which put
a limit of his will.

Man, which has been given control over few and limited things by
GOD, yet possesses immense potential in himself.

A man can achieve any goal in life until he gives up, the problem
comes when he puts limitations on himself. The word impossible
actually lies in the dictionary of fools.

It's not necessary that man gets everything in life for which he
makes efforts, but his next generations can take benefit from it.
A single man can have influence on rest of world.

Iqbal says in jawab e sikwa

" Tum mai horon ka koi chahne wala he nahi,

Koh e toor tu maujood hai, Mosa e nahi".

In same jawab e sikwa, He says

" Aj be ho jo Ibrahim ka sa sama paida,

Aag ker sakti hai andaaz e gulistan paida"


Being a Muslim, we confess that this world is a temporary
place to live, A true Momin works hard to get the things which
are beyond this world.

In the eyes of a Mumin, this wealth, this world and the Kingship
are very little things, a matter of very few days, a game of minor
achievements, and an optical illusion.

Being a muslim doesn’t mean that a man only has to think
about next world, he needs to put right efforts in this world as well.

When a man becomes Muslim, he accepts that there is someone
almighty power, to whom he will be answerable one day,
puts him on self analysis and self judgment.


Hazrat Esa said that "If a man has “believe” equal to tiny particle,
He can walk over water". So the hidden potential of a Muslim is not only
his self believe but also his strong believe in GOD.

So if the man takes Will of GOD, along with his own will,
No anyone in world can let him down. Nothing can shake him,
but he has to pass through hardships, hardships of failure,

disappointment and opposition, but man, don’t be afraid of strong
opposing wind, It is there to make you fly even more and more higher.

With best Regards

Author : Waqas Akram

Sunday, March 25, 2007

Always Shut the door behind you



Assalam O Alikum

One of my teacher advised me to always "Shut the Door" while you enter in the room. I thought that he is sick minded, that's why he always advises me to shut the door.
Once i asked him that why do you emphasize me to shut the door? What's so special in it ? He explained it to me.

The Term "Shut the door behind you" actually means that you now have entered in new room or stage of your life, so shut the door of past memories if you want to progress in future. For success in future life, forget all memories of past.
Every day comes with the new opportunities in life, If you loose one, don't assume that it's end of your life. If a way is blocked for you, 100's of others are open for you.

" A successful person is the one who forgets the despair of past and fear of future, He always concentrates on his present life, neglecting all the dangers of incoming life and hopelessness of past".

Reference :

This is an extract from one of the lectures delivered by the writer late Ashfaq Ahmad.
Regards

Monday, March 12, 2007

REAL REVOLUTION




The Word Revoultion Means " a fundamental change in the way of thinking about or visualizing something".We assume that revolution comes by bloodshed or by collective efforts of masses, but in reality revolution is a state in which " One's heart is reverted".
"Apne maan mai doob k pa ja surag e zindagi, Tu mera nahi banta na ban, apna tu ban" !!!
I finally come to the conclution that instead of blaming and cursing others, We should look at ourselves.The fault is not in others, the fault is in myself.Sometime ago, I wrote about Ghustaki e Rassol, and then someone reminded me " The one who doesnt know the Prophet, and he says or writes something about him, Is he Ghustake e Rassol, or The one who knows and accepts him, and then he daily disobeys him hundreds of Times". Then i found that i myself is the biggest Ghustak e Rasool.
Everyone of us is an owner of his government, and which is his tongue, eyes, ears and rest of body parts.The one who knows how to rule over his own government, is the most successful person of the world, and that's real revolution which starts from myself, but not from others.

Monday, March 5, 2007

you are, whatever you think




Assalam o Alikum

There was a huge elephant on a circus and it was tied to a weak string, the children coming across were afraid of him. A child asks the owner of the elephant that why don’t you tie this elephant by a very strong string, it can cut this weak string and can be harmful to us. The owner of the elephant replied, It will never do so, the child ask, why uncle? He replied because this elephant is not tied with this weak string but with a very strong Imagination in the mind.

The child didn’t understand and asked how it's possible uncle?

The old man explained “when this elephant was young kid, I tied it with very strong strings, and he tried for about 6 months for his best to get rid of it, but he could not succeed, afterwards he never tried to get rid of it because he has understood that he cant do so”.

Now the elephant is very strong but he still thinks that he is tied to that strong string and all of his efforts will be wasted, so he never tries to cut it.

He is tied to his thinking that he can’t do so and not with this weak string.
Everyone of us is tied with some type of thinkings which are hurdle in our ways to get the success.

Might be many of us are in verge of success and a little boost could help us to get the victory but
We are tied with the fears of failures or some other fears.

Come out of the fears and discover the world, the win is waiting for you.

We just need a trigger to change our thinkings to put right efforts towards life and the life afterwards.

Do remember me in your prayers.

Inspiration for this writing :- Ashfaq Ahmed

Sunday, February 18, 2007


Allah is the Light of the heavens and the earth. The metaphor of His Light is that of a niche in which is a lamp, the lamp inside a glass, the glass like a brilliant star, lit from a blessed tree, an olive, neither of the east nor of the west, its oil all but giving off light even if no fire touches it. Light upon Light. Allah guides to His Light whoever He wills and Allah makes metaphors for mankind and Allah has knowledge of all things. (Qur'an, 24:35)

Monday, February 12, 2007

The Last Breath



LIFE slips away second by second. Are you aware that every day brings you closer to death or that death is as close to you as it is to other people?


We are told in the Quran: “Every soul shall have a taste death in the end. To Us you shall be brought back. (Al`Ankabut 29:57).


Everyone on this earth is destined to die. All nations that thrived in one time or another throughout history came to an end. Today, we hardly come across the traces of many of these people who passed away. Those currently living and those who will ever live will also face death on a predestined day. Despite this fact, people tend to see death as an unlikely incident.


Think of a baby who has just opened its eyes to the world and a man who is about to take in his last breath. Neither had influence on their birth or death whatsoever. Only God possesses the power to inspire the breath of life or to take it away.


All human beings will live until a certain day and then die. In the Quran, Allah gives an account of the attitude commonly shown toward death in the following verse.


“Say (to them): “Verily, the death from which you flee, will truly overtake you: then you will be sent back to (Allah) the All-Knower of the unseen and the seen, and He will tell you (the truth of) what you did.” (Al Jumu`ah 62:8)


The majority of people avoid thinking about death. In the rapid flow of daily events, people usually occupy themselves with totally different subjects: what college to enroll in, which company to work for, what color of clothing to wear next morning, what to cook for supper, etc.
These are the kinds of major issues that we usually consider. Life is perceived as a routine process of such minor matters. Attempts to talk about death are always interrupted by those who do not feel comfortable hearing about it.


Assuming death will come only when people grow older, they do not want to concern themselves with such an unpleasant subject. Yet it should be kept in mind that living for even one further hour is never guaranteed. Everyday, people witness the deaths of other people around them but think little about the day when others will witness their own death. People never suppose that such an end is awaiting them!


Nevertheless, when death comes to man, all the “realities” of life suddenly vanish. No reminder of the “good old days” endures in this world.


Think of everything that you are able to do right now: You can blink your eyes, move your body, speak, laugh; all these are functions of your body. Now think about the state and shape your body will assume after your death.


From the moment you breathe for the last time, you will become nothing but a “heap of flesh”. Your body, silent and motionless, will be carried to the morgue. There, it will be washed for the last time. Wrapped in a shroud, your corpse will be carried in a coffin to the graveyard. Once your remains are in the grave, soil will cover you.


This is the end of your story. From now on, you are simply one of the names represented in the graveyard by a stone.


During the first months or years, your grave will be visited frequently. As time passes, fewer people will come. Decades later, there will be no one.


Meanwhile, your immediate family members will experience a different aspect of your death. At home, your room and bed will be empty. After the funeral, little of what belongs to you will be kept at home: Most of your clothes, shoes, etc, will be given to those who need them. Your file at the public registration office will be deleted or archived. During the first years, some will mourn you. Yet, time will work against the memories you left behind. Four or five decades later, there will remain only a few who remember you. Before long, new generations will come and none of your generation will exist any longer on earth. Whether you are remembered or not will be worthless to you.


While all this is taking place in the world, the corpse under the soil will go through a rapid process of decay. Soon after you are placed in the grave, the bacteria and insects proliferating in the corpse due to the absence of oxygen will start to function.


The gasses released from these organisms will inflate the body, starting from the abdomen, altering its shape and appearance. Bloody froth will pop out the mouth and nose due to the pressure of gasses on the diaphragm. As corruption proceeds, body hair, nails, soles, and palms will fall off. Accompanying this outer alteration in the body, internal organs such as the lungs, heart, and liver will also decay. In the meantime, the most horrible scene takes place in the abdomen, where the skin can no longer bear the pressure of gasses and suddenly bursts, spreading an unendurably disgusting smell. Starting from the skull, muscles will detach from their particular places. Skin and soft tissues will completely disintegrate. The brain will decay and start looking like clay. This process will go on until the whole body is reduced to a skeleton.
There is no chance of going back to the old life again. Gathering around the supper table with family members, socializing, or having an honorable job will never again be possible.


In short, the “heap of flesh and bones” to which we assign an identity faces a quite nasty end. On the other hand, you – or rather, your soul – will leave this body as soon as you breathe your last. The remainder of you – your body – will become part of the soil.


Yes, but what is the reason for all these things happening?


If Allah willed, the body would never have decayed in such a way. That it does so actually carries a very important inner message in itself.


The tremendous end awaiting man should make him acknowledge that he is not a body himself, but a soul “encased” within a body. In other words, man has to acknowledge that he has an existence beyond his body.


Furthermore, man should understand the death of his body which he tries to possess as if he is to remain eternally in this temporal world. However, this body, which he deems so important, will decay and become worm-eaten one day and finally be reduced to a skeleton. That day might be very soon.


Despite all these facts, people’s mental process is inclined to disregard what they do not like or want. They are even inclined to deny the existence of things they avoid confronting. This tendency seems to be most apparent when death is the issue. Only a funeral or the sudden death of an immediate family member brings this reality to mind. Almost all of us see death far from ourselves. The assumption is that those who die while sleeping or in an accident are different people, and what they face will never befall us! Everybody thinks it is too early to die and that there are always years ahead to live.


Yet most probably, people who die on the way to school or hurrying to attend a business meeting shared the same thought. They probably never thought that the next day’s newspapers would publish news of their deaths. It is entirely possible that, as you read these lines, you still do not expect to die soon after you have finished them or even entertain the possibility that it might happen.


Probably you feel that it is too early to die because there are many things to accomplish. However, this is just an avoidance of death and these are only vain endeavors to escape it:
Say (O Muhammad, peace be upon him to these hypocrites who ask your permission to run away from you): “Flight will not avail you if you flee from death or killing; and then you will enjoy no more than a brief respite!” (Al Ahzaab 33:16)


Man who is created alone should be aware that he will also die alone. Yet during his life, he lives almost addicted to possessions. His sole purpose in life becomes to possess more. Yet, people cannot take their goods with them to the grave. The body is buried, wrapped in a shroud made from the cheapest of fabrics. The body comes into this world alone and departs from it in the same way. The only asset people can take with them when they die is their belief or disbelief.